I know why I’m single....

....because I want to be.
Everyone isn’t out here looking for a significant other or sex.... some of us are content w/ focusing on the many other things that life has to offer.

I told a friend yesterday that I’m not actively looking for a gf or sex, I’m leaving ALL of that to fate. It will happen,
I’m a 43 year old man.. I’ve had a LOT of good experiences in my lifetime. The days of casual sex and casual relationships are behind me. Now there has to be something a lot more tangible than “casual”. I want to build something. I want something with a foundation and a ceiling.
Yes, I miss sex.
Not as much as I miss the companionship and intimacy that makes sex more desirable... casual sex ain’t gonna get me where I need to be. That shit be in the way tbh. It clogs/clouds my train of thought. It’s a short cut that aint worth it.
I hate when people ask/say, “Damn, you still don’t have a girlfriend? Do you even desire a woman?”.

I say, “Damn, you’re still in my business? Don’t you have some of your own to tend to?”
when it happens. That can be 3 months from now or 3 years from now, either way... I’m good.
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