It really freaks me out how many men are like "oops I forgot to get a sexual consent teehee! I promise I'll never do it again" and other men are also like "haha no worries it happens to all of us! You're forgiven". It turns my stomach how many men just openly admit to that shit

Almost every AFAB person has a story about being pressured or coerced into sex, or the conditions of their consent change radically partway through sex. And at best you get "woke" dudes patting each other on the back for admitting their mistake like it isn't totally avoidable

I'm a social dumbass but holy shit it's really not hard to get consent and to also do consent check-ins. Even people I've been in long-term relationships with, if they seem unenthusiastic or distant, I'll be like "hey are you sure? You ok? Wanna stop?". IT'S NOT HARD

This is definitely about OnlyRealLeftist but also just all rapists in general fuck all of them. The worst thing they can imagine happening to them is not being liked anymore, because they only see other people as tools to fulfill their own fucked up needs

also thanks @TerribleRat for this thread which brought all this info to light for me https://twitter.com/TerribleRat/status/1250320778521792515?s=20