i’m only a “gold star” lesbian cause i was fortunate enough to be in an space where i could be myself from a young age..not everyone had that..yall got to stop invalidating someones lesbianism cause it took them longer to find themselves or to find a safe space to be who they are

many women dated men in the past due to peer pressure, societal pressure, family, religion etc. some women didn’t know they were gay until one day they just knew..my point is, you don’t get to judge someone elses journey just because it doesn’t look like your own