i get asked pretty frequently to “give someone a DM” (make a group DM of me, person and chalamet, then leave so person can message him directly) and i can’t be the only person who sees how icky that is??? is that a normal thing in stan culture??

this has been happening on and off just short of 3 years (someone even stopped being friends w me because i wouldn’t do it) and it gets so tiring when it starts picking up again. it’s horrifyingly invasive like!!! please use some common sense!!!!

i think i’ve made this thread like 10 times lol but i feel like i need to reiterate: please don’t ask someone to do this!