there are certain layers of intimacy/access I can’t offer without consistent cultivation & intentionality. & that’s okay. temporality is okay. it’s not a punitive boundary, it’s me loving myself.

in other words...

I AM NOT A DRIVE THRU

you can sit & eat a whole meal or feast for a season with me but you can’t come & go as you please expecting the same energy every time.

my bad to anyone who ever thot they could. I thot you could, too.

but nah...

#relationshipanarchy