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I’m sorry can we talk about how easy it is to slip into haram relationships and how we have little to no support from eachother to deal with all this pressure?
Like forreal premarital relationships are so glorified. Whether done intentionally or unintentionally, people “show off” and glamorise their relationships online and it makes people want the same things for themselves
Marriage is always on our minds because of parental pressure and the fact that we’re in a hyper-sexualised society and we want to avoid haraam. But then society also tells us we’re “too young” and most of the time we’re financially unstable till mid-late 20s.
And THEN on top of it when someone does come along that you’re interested in, you have no idea if you’re ready to marry them so you decide to get to know them. It leads to feelings being potentially hurt and things being hidden from parents
Ultimately hurt people become bitter and lose faith in love. It’s so heartbreaking to see so many young people unsure of where love lies in their future because they got so used to the idealised version that was painted in our heads by our crossbred culture
I also can’t get over how some people feel insecure because of their failings to secure someone. This whole situation is a mess and needs to be addressed by more scholars and parents and young people alike
If you feel alone and scared and you’re young, please don’t hesitate to reach out to me. It’s a mixed up world and I wouldn’t blame you to feel confused on how to go about your feelings. I’m praying for you
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