When someone acts like they don’t give a fuck about u or ur emotions... and shows u REPEATEDLY that they do not respect u... that doesn’t fucking mean that u need to stick around to try and EARN it or explain to them that u don’t deserve to be treated badly

Fuck them. Leave.

I get it. It’s really hard to accept. Instead of running away from them, you try your best to rationalize that there must something wrong with you. You try to convince them of your worth. You try and EARN their love and affection. Sweetie, you’re just barking up the wrong tree.

It’s a PAINFUL phenomenon when you feel it happening. You can feel your self respect going out the window. You completely lower yourself for someone because they treat you like shit and you feel like you somehow deserve it. You don’t deserve it. They just don’t deserve you.

You don’t have to earn common decency. If they show you that they’re inconsiderate, don’t value your emotions and are okay with you being hurt by their actions, I promise you, it’ll only get worse. Nothing you do will change how they view you. Leave with your dignity intact

It’s not logical. It’s like the more that someone hurts us, we crave them even more. You have to be aware of how you think and process things. If you’re the type of person who chases people who act like you’re nothing to them, I’m speaking to you. They’re not worth “earning.”

Your self respect and dignity are fucking PRICELESS. Protect them at all costs. Protect them by only valuing people who value you. Never run to someone who seems to run from you. It will ruin you. Slowly but surely, you’ll become a shell of yourself. Trust me. It’s not worth it.