I decided to write this a couple of days ago when my toxic ass sister “reached out”, but tbh, since this pandemic went into full swing, I’ve been contacted by two family members and two ex-flames in the spirit of “mending fences” and I’ve had it. https://wearyourvoicemag.com/so-a-toxic-person-tried-to-contact-you-global-pandemic/
So a Toxic Person Tried to Contact You During a Global Pandemic
The pandemic has increased the likelihood that a harmful or toxic person will reach out expecting that your boundaries have shifted under vulnerability.https://wearyourvoicemag.com/so-a-toxic-person-tried-to-contact-you-global-pandemic/
Fair warning, this is very rant-y. But I also want to remind folx that even though we are living in utter chaos right now, that does not mean that your carefully constructed boundaries need to succumb to the chaos too.