Since you asked @nkazie06 . I went through some terrible heartbreaks most times from the same person and other times from others. But boy did I learn a http://lot.So"> http://lot.So  I am experiencedhttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😂" title="Face with tears of joy" aria-label="Emoji: Face with tears of joy">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤣" title="Rolling on the floor laughing" aria-label="Emoji: Rolling on the floor laughing">. Here are the red flags and some tips . Some apply to both guys and ladies

Firstly Heartbreak is so painful but it doesn’t last forever. You heal and yes you can live and meet someone much better. Always know that.

No one is made for you but there are people suitable for you so you can pick from http://those.be"> http://those.be  ready to walk away and let them know that you will continue on your journey if they take an unpleasant detour.

He is busy. That is trash my friend. Bill Clinton had extra time to have an affair and he was the president of USA so don’t listen to that. People make time. These ones are also bad at communication

It’s not your job to fix people or to pray to God that they change omg. They are not yours to fix and they are not gonna change at least not while you are around

He constantly peels off your self esteem until you feel like you are not good enough. He is not your cheerleader. And undermines your achievements Oh these are dangerous coz things can slowly turn into abuse emotional or physical because these ones love power and control.

A guy that does not pay the bill or somehow you tend to cover the bill or always on the 50/50 tip. He also needs to borrow money from you. Feminist please don’t @ me.

Catch them cheating is one thing, if they lie about it it& #39;s worse because in this case you have a person who has shown you a weakness in flesh and weakness of character. They must pick a struggle.

Guys that promise to marry youhttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😂" title="Face with tears of joy" aria-label="Emoji: Face with tears of joy">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤣" title="Rolling on the floor laughing" aria-label="Emoji: Rolling on the floor laughing">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😂" title="Face with tears of joy" aria-label="Emoji: Face with tears of joy">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤣" title="Rolling on the floor laughing" aria-label="Emoji: Rolling on the floor laughing">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😂" title="Face with tears of joy" aria-label="Emoji: Face with tears of joy">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😂" title="Face with tears of joy" aria-label="Emoji: Face with tears of joy">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤣" title="Rolling on the floor laughing" aria-label="Emoji: Rolling on the floor laughing">I cant guys. I won’t even explain this one you just know. (Very few exceptions to this one)

Your dates are always under the sheets. That’s all he can do for you. He is also the send me nudes guy

A guy that only sees you at nighthttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🌚" title="New moon with face" aria-label="Emoji: New moon with face">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🌚" title="New moon with face" aria-label="Emoji: New moon with face">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🌚" title="New moon with face" aria-label="Emoji: New moon with face">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🌚" title="New moon with face" aria-label="Emoji: New moon with face">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🌚" title="New moon with face" aria-label="Emoji: New moon with face">no guys and is not available on weekends. And when you see him it’s always just you guys

Okay there is so much I can say but at this point I’m tired of typing.