What balls
https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="đ" title="Ant" aria-label="Emoji: Ant">s have, to go onto a thread full of people talking about their own gritty, problematic experiences with coping as survivors/marginalised people/ect and go "Well, I/MY friend who& #39;s [X] doesn& #39;t do this so all of YOU are wrong!"