What balls s have, to go onto a thread full of people talking about their own gritty, problematic experiences with coping as survivors/marginalised people/ect and go "Well, I/MY friend who's [X] doesn't do this so all of YOU are wrong!"

Yes, your ONE PERSON anecdote sure showed this thread full of people talking about how this content personally helped them that THEY'RE the ones who're wrong in this situation, and not the one implying they're just as bad as the ones who committed their traumas against them.