Here is the story...

So I was dating this guy,we met through a friend ka a random weekend because my friend was dating his brother. I was not going to date this guy to be honest because he was everything I didn't like at first glance but ke people get to talking and feelings... https://twitter.com/moraka_cee/status/1250020688246833152

Anyway,we got together and it was starting to work out. I was working my first job in retail at the time and had just become breadwinner, he didn't know though because I have a thing with men knowing your home situation especially when they have money(he was from a rich family)

Dude took care of my appearance though, proper even. He called me his flowers and flowers apparently need "love and care"...i spent a lot of time with guy, he always fetched me on Thursdays and brought me home ka monday. Anyway fast forward to almost a year into rship...

He asks me to come help him move into a bigger place and I go. I clean alles, windows walls, di wardrobe...help pack his old place and take stuff to new place. During these times he keeps "disappearing " I pay no mind to it...he gave me his card and told me to make the place home

Bona, I'm buying di fatuku, colour coordinating di towel tjeeer ke busy. After a few days, the place is home and I'm so happy with my work

It's now Tuesday, I've been there since the previous Wednesday so I ask if I can go home tomorrow because man, I been there and he says okay. We have a young house warming with his brothers and cousins and that's when I give him this gift ya bedding and a bottle of his fav wine..

Wednesday morning, motho o hana go nkisa gae and I must wait..sharp. we then go pick up his dad and uncles by centurion(I had met his parents already). We go back to his place, I make lunch for the elders then he say ke mo khaphe to drop off his uncles somewhere...

Reye Helen Joseph and drop off family. I ask him what's wrong and he says no, it's nothing mara obvs this is hella weird. We get his elders and go back to his place,now I'm making tea and impatient because I want to go home. While washing dishes, I hear his dad ask him if...

"He told me" and he says "not yet"...dad then says he is calling his mom..this is all in Venda. Few minutes later, dad calls me and we go outside to talk...he says they went to Helen Joseph because his ex gave birth and they had to go see the baby. Kere hau, njani...

I ask, he confirms and then I ask what he's going to do. A re he doesn't know...I went home and told he will tell me when he knows...

She moved in 3 weeks later