insisting that baekhyun should be referred to as a man, when in fact he IS a male and has always identified with he/him pronouns, isn't misogynistic...it's in fact basic respect and something we shouldn't have to argue over. (cont.)

there are people out there who are FIGHTING to be referred to with their gender pronoun of choice, and here you all are simply choosing to ignore somebody's gender identity just because what...? he is a man? or because it fits your ship fantasies? (cont.)

while we're on the subject, wanting to enforce a "girl/guy" dynamic so bad in a gay relationship is straight up homophobic. there is no guy/girl in a gay relationship cause guess what..they are BOTH men. (cont.)

trying to misgender one of the two and cast them into "the girl of the relationship" is high key heteronormative and homophobic. if you want to ship a guy with a girl so bad, ship het couples or your bias x y/n. (cont.)

finally the fact that you take things baekhyun is/does that don't appeal or fit the "traditional masculine" ideals and use them to call him "a girl/girly" is in fact sexist. what you are basically saying is that what...men can't be sweet and cute and soft, (cont.)

can't wear wigs, can't be cunty without being girls/losing their masculinity? because what? these are "effeminate" behaviours?

next thing you know you'll tell me that girls can't be strong willed, or authoritative, or strong or whatever just because these are "masculine" traits

it's 2020 and it's high time we stopped subscribing to traditional (toxic) views of masculinity.

men can be both cute,sweet, soft, wear make up, dress in pink, be cunty AND be strong willed, fit, sexy. and they are still men, unless they ask you to call them something else.

(this btw goes both ways, women can be both bosses and leaders and bad ass and cute and wear pink etc).

in conclusion: baekhyun is a MAN who doesn't give a sh!t about toxic masculinity and appealing to traditional stereotypes, so do me a favor and get off his d!ck.

also i said all i had to say on the subject. if you want to have an actual discussion on the issue, please dm me i would be happy to talk.

but i am not going to engage with any drama. i have a curiouscat feel free to send me hate there if you really are so pressed.