Random thought

Whilst y'all are preparing the girlchild for marriage... Who's preparing the boychild???

When y'all are lecturing the young ladies on how to be the "acceptable wives", who's lecturing the young men on how to be "responsible husbands"???

"Nekwaunoroorwa"... That's OK but ko "kwaanoroora"?

So the woman must learn how to keep her husband but these guys are not being taught how to keep their wives.... OK

Even church make us believe we have to pray for our husbands when they're wild and unfaithful...but if the opposition happens
Nkosi yami

Divorce is justified when there is unfaithfulness but we're making our daughters believe they are at fault whenever their husbands cheat... The unhappiness, depression and trauma our sisters are going through just to keep their failing marriages

Faith, culture, society... Focuses soo much on the ladies... Neglecting the gentleman and at the end of the day... All we have are failed marriages