This lady matched me on a dating app today just to insult me and tell me how much she hates polyamory. 36 years old, highly educated. She felt that it was worth her time on a Monday to tell me I'm a selfish entitled prick and that I should just admit I don't love my wife.

And yesterday I wrote that I'm bothered by people painting polyamory as something repugnant and abusive and got told by mutuals that it's not a big deal while I had to block a bunch of deus vult types with cartoon avatars retweeting me with threats and insults.

And also yesterday someone left another 10-point manifesto with YouTube links about the evils of polyamory in a comment on my blog post about a book club. I basically never block comments on Putanumonit but fuck you bro, you caught me on a bad day.

Fuck it then. I'm not a "polyamorist" anymore. I don't want a victim identity, and no one who's not poly gives a shit. Now I'm just a guy who loves women and dissolved his jealousy in acid by accident and has nothing anymore to advocate or teach all the resentful lonely people.