this is just 11pm thinkin& #39; but. @ nonmasc ppl who compliment masc sapphics by saying "step on me!" or "choke me out," can yall please think for 5 seconds about how those messages day in/day out make you feel like a dumb brute thats only good for hurting people for their own fun
a random feminine person: ugh break my nose daddy!
me, who likes to spend my time sitting down & talking to earthworms about their day: w....what
me, who likes to spend my time sitting down & talking to earthworms about their day: w....what
me: the other day i saw a ladybug and i got it to crawl up on my finger-
random non-butch: ugh i just want you to break my spine
random non-butch: ugh i just want you to break my spine
like yeah, if you and your friends have established that thats ok between yall, idc, but. idk theres just something gross if that& #39;s the only compliment you EVER give masc sapphics
and also theres the racism aspect, where non-white, especially dark-skin sapphics of color are seen as aggressive and dangerous and that& #39;s why white feminine sapphics find them attractive in the "break my bones" way
the point of this thread, the next time you see a picture of a butch/masc sapphic scroll across your TL, maybe delete that "break my nose daddy" response and type in "you& #39;re really handsome, i love (X characteristic)!" instead