this is just 11pm thinkin' but. @ nonmasc ppl who compliment masc sapphics by saying "step on me!" or "choke me out," can yall please think for 5 seconds about how those messages day in/day out make you feel like a dumb brute thats only good for hurting people for their own fun

a random feminine person: ugh break my nose daddy!

me, who likes to spend my time sitting down & talking to earthworms about their day: w....what

me: the other day i saw a ladybug and i got it to crawl up on my finger-

random non-butch: ugh i just want you to break my spine

like yeah, if you and your friends have established that thats ok between yall, idc, but. idk theres just something gross if that's the only compliment you EVER give masc sapphics

and also theres the racism aspect, where non-white, especially dark-skin sapphics of color are seen as aggressive and dangerous and that's why white feminine sapphics find them attractive in the "break my bones" way

the point of this thread, the next time you see a picture of a butch/masc sapphic scroll across your TL, maybe delete that "break my nose daddy" response and type in "you're really handsome, i love (X characteristic)!" instead