But I really feel so bad for Aries/Scorpio/Aqua/Virgo Venus in love. I gravitate towards them most.
Because they actually struggle to fall in love and struggle being in something because they may feel too much or undesirable or even an issue due to how they feel they express love and how they feel others may want it. It could leave them feeling inadequate or as though
they’re a burden or an issue to someone else’s life. I see them walking away and giving up often and people confuse that as a sign that they don’t want the person. But the reality is not that, it’s more that they actually feel the person would be better off without them because
clearly they just aren’t doing it right. Many of them end up opting out to be alone even when they know their love for someone runs deep or their capabilities for loving someone runs deep. They just really dislike the idea of getting it wrong. They also often get shocked and
surprised to see someone else working hard for them and pouring in energy and emotion to keep them around. Because they’ve really seen themselves as incapable of loving “right” because Venus feels missing there. So it leaves the question “why does this person like me so much”.
Like I don’t get it or sometimes it’s I don’t believe it. Some may do tests to prove it, some may hide their feelings because they don’t believe it, some may just live doubting it and never really give it back. Some criticise themselves to a place where they convince themselves
they’re not good at the whole love thing or other things in love even their looks/image which makes them very unavailable to listening to constructive criticism because they add it to the many they already had of themselves in their head. Making it feel to them like they’re
constantly criticised and not good enough. Having a “if you don’t like it here, you should go” or an “I can’t get this right” mindset and resulting in wanting to walk away. When the reality is that they’ve made themselves think the person doesn’t like it here with their own deep
criticisms and depreciation.
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