idk who needs to hear this but theres life after divorce. i was once afraid there wasnt. instead im happier and better off now in every sense of the word. its not easy but there is still hope for you. and u arent damaged goods. & men dont care: u will have a romantic life after.

i used to really fret about the fact i would be divorced with a child. like, who would want that. the answer is a trillion dudes couldnt care less about that. u will have plenty options. besides. after 30 its ridiculous to care if ppl got kids. most do. it is not a thing.

literally never met a man who had anything to say about me havin a kid once they find out. the narrative u are fed as a woman is that it makes u repulsive to be a single mom and everyone runs from you/that. it is a lie in every sense.

on the contrary. ive had bf's who got my daughter gifts and school supplies without ever even meeting her. they care so much less about that and are so much more understanding than youd think.