idk who needs to hear this but theres life after divorce. i was once afraid there wasnt. instead im happier and better off now in every sense of the word. its not easy but there is still hope for you. and u arent damaged goods. & men dont care: u will have a romantic life after.

i used to really fret about the fact i would be divorced with a child. like, who would want that. the answer is a trillion dudes couldnt care less about that. u will have plenty options. besides. after 30 its ridiculous to care if ppl got kids. most do. it is not a thing.

literally never met a man who had anything to say about me havin a kid once they find out. the narrative u are fed as a woman is that it makes u repulsive to be a single mom and everyone runs from you/that. it is a lie in every sense.

on the contrary. ive had bf& #39;s who got my daughter gifts and school supplies without ever even meeting her. they care so much less about that and are so much more understanding than youd think.