And the other thing is that too many people are focused on finding the one, or a husband/wife when that’s not even the phase of life you’re in https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="💀" title="Skull" aria-label="Emoji: Skull">

Example: I’m not looking for a husband, I’m not even “wife” material. I’m still in the phase of my life where I’d rather lose a nigga than lose an argument. My wants and needs are my top priority. There are days that I really don’t want to talk to anyone.

Like none of these things would work in marriage because marriage is about compromise. It takes a level of unselfishness that I do not have right now and that’s okayhttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="💀" title="Skull" aria-label="Emoji: Skull"> so I don’t need to date like I’m walking down the aisle tomorrow