TL asleep ? So I once dated some gent. Legale I thought we were dating .Then we planned to go sleep out ,I was like I don’t want to use public transport and I gave him money to rent a car

So there I was waiting for him at home to come pick me up .its getting late kana jiki jiki his phone is off , then I went to whatsapp where I found a status uploaded by him of girls dancing next to a bucket full of liquor

My heart ??? Then I mized and went to sleep .jiki jiki in the morning ,hey I was at the farm with my dad ,I was like okay ayt .The car ? He was like no il make a plan ,so this gent took other girls out with my money ??.

So weeks pass kana , dololo ka chelete or rented car , a week before he hit on one of my girls and was like I don’t have a girl and my girl was like ow really ? I sent him screenshots. Guess what he said ? Mxm Akere I haven’t kissed or touched her , I haven’t cheated

Still I mized, so like I am trying mmanyana, I brought him food at home we are chatting , and then I was like I love you ? Owaii gent kefa ere the feeling is mutual

So I just went home mmanyana , ah then a week later I decided to end things , nyaa waitse Keng I needed to free myself , jiki jiki he is in a relationship, thing is this nigga would ask for money and tbh it was such a weird ass draining activity

Then he had the audacity to text are hlemma buy my girlfriend and I a bottle of Hennessy and he even sent a plug’s number

So yeah I blocked him , so I was literally a “bank” to him , what I went through was degrading and painful and I don’t wish that on anyone’s child .know your worth ,don’t get used .