imo, it’s unfair to expect someone to speak to you all day. It’s genuinely not a good thing to make someone the centre of your world. Not talking to you all day doesn’t mean I’ve deattached myself. I’m stable and spending my time doing things that fulfilled me before we met... https://twitter.com/kajunthebrat/status/1249367281941057551
When you start to compromise the things that fulfill you and make up your everyday life, you begin to lose yourself and ultimately not be yourself in the relationship
Not even married couples talk all day (there’s time when communication is minimal because of work).We should appreciate those hours of absence. When y’all reunite (text later/see each other) the love would have grown fonder coz you realize how much you value the person’s presence
the assumption is that if a gent is not texting you, then he’s probably texting another hun. that notion is kinda flawed imo. Personally, If I fuccs with you best believe imma fuccs with you and you only.
Talking ALL DAY is unfair but I think talking EVERYDAY is important
but then again “you can’t get tired/bored of someone you like” as many say.

Indaba even the smallest absence is a trend of someone that’ll ghost you and when people sense absence it reminds them of the pattern of inconsistent partners
Compliment each other not Complete each
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