In a way, no one has really seen cis male culture.

In a big way that culture has been hostage by bad actors and powerful, shitty men for so long that the rest of have seperated from it.

So I can't help but twitch when I hear something about cis culture. Cause it ain't ours.

If you think about the ones you know and like, the ones that are doing good, they keep the culture at a distance.

In a way things like punk were a sort of haven for men like that.

Problem is there's never an easy way to keep the bad actors at.

So it feels like you leave the culture only for it to follow YOU.

Its exhausting, because it feels like you to leave the thinks you love.

I know this a huge problem for men in gaming. Its a safe space that gets invaded by these hateful men.

Then they set up shop and call it there's. And the bad actors, the worse of them, they have unlimited fuel to fight.

They will get nasty in a way that makes it impossible to stay.

I don't want to understate what they do to women and other groups. But where do you think they practice? Sharpen those tools?

On other men.

But your trapped in the patriarchy. And the rules for men are simple.

Don't like it? Then stop it or take it.

There's no help, no empathy.

So you leave. Cause the abuse is too much.

If be real curious on what cismale culture would be like if we too can get rid of the patriarchy.

Because there's a lot of things that are more common than it may seem.

I know of whole male community's devoted to muscular women for example.

There are parts of culture that everyone hates that WE HATE TOO!

But they won't let us get close enough to change. Not unless they can monetize it. Get there hands in it.

I think change is closer than many think. And once we get the bigger chains of Patriarchy off, you'll be surprised by how inclusive cismale culture can be.

I really do.