It's easier to beat your chest in purely hypothetical situations where harassers and rapists are ~obviously~ rapists (bc you think you can spot them coming?
) than face reality where the rapists and harassers are your buddies who you've known for years. Ergo, it doesn't happen. https://twitter.com/dalienuh/status/1249593333309153286

This conveniently ties into this thread from earlier: maybe you never hear about it because the victim knows you'll pop off, do something stupid to get revenge, ruin your career AND any possibility of reporting/justice, and it'll be the victim's "fault" https://twitter.com/sasta_co/status/1249737566133207040?s=19