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Gue pernah liat orang dg fobia kucing, ngetwit kalau fobianya ketrigger tiap dia liat konten kucing.
Apaqa kita perlu menghapus semua konten kucing yg ada di jagat sosial media ini?
Nggak kan?
Yg dilakuin org itu apa? Dia mute semua wording yg berkaitan dg kucing. Be like her.
Apaqa kita perlu menghapus semua konten kucing yg ada di jagat sosial media ini?
Nggak kan?
Yg dilakuin org itu apa? Dia mute semua wording yg berkaitan dg kucing. Be like her.
One thing you should remember, semua orang bisa ketrigger atas semua hal.
Pernah nonton film 27 Steps of May? Dia ketrigger dgn ngelihat sepiring nasi padang. Atau gue, pada masanya pernah ketrigger tiap liat achievement karir org lain.
Apa dunia harus sesuai dgn kehendak kita?
Pernah nonton film 27 Steps of May? Dia ketrigger dgn ngelihat sepiring nasi padang. Atau gue, pada masanya pernah ketrigger tiap liat achievement karir org lain.
Apa dunia harus sesuai dgn kehendak kita?
So yes girl, at the end of the day lo ga bisa maksa semua hal berjalan sesuai dgn standar ideal lo. Satu2nya yg bisa nolong diri lo adalah diri lo sendiri.
Skrg kalo ada org pamer skill makeup and it's triggering you, apa masalahnya di mereka? No, it's on you. Admit it.
Skrg kalo ada org pamer skill makeup and it's triggering you, apa masalahnya di mereka? No, it's on you. Admit it.
Same thing dgn orang yg bilang "baju lo seksi gue jadi horny, lo dosa krn pamer aurat" most likely gue akan jawab "ya ga usah lo liat, or control your f-ing mind!"
Bcs the problem is in ur mind. Admit it first, then maybe you can learn to accept n make peace with such condition.
Bcs the problem is in ur mind. Admit it first, then maybe you can learn to accept n make peace with such condition.
Kecuali kalo trennya mukulin pacar lo beneran sampe babak belur trs ditambahin caption2 romantisasi kekerasan itu baru kutuk aja sampe kiamat. Atau tren skull breaker yg bisa nyelakain orang, etc etc.
So what I'm trying to say is, you have all the rights to judge if some trends are stupid or not, but at the same time those people also have the rights to make trends.
So u can't be a socmed police asking ppl to take down their content just based on what's going on in YOUR head.
So u can't be a socmed police asking ppl to take down their content just based on what's going on in YOUR head.
It doesn't mean I'm belittling someone's trauma, no. If you have certain condition that may triggered everytime you see, hear, sense, any particular things, you should seeking for help, and social media is not always a safe space for you.
Sometimes you need to detox.
Sometimes you need to detox.
Know your limit, know your boundaries. Know when you need to LOG OUT from your social media.
Yes, girl. Logging out and find peace in real world sometimes can be the best therapy for you, especially when you're not healed yet.
Yes, girl. Logging out and find peace in real world sometimes can be the best therapy for you, especially when you're not healed yet.
Moreover, we're talking about SOCIAL MEDIA where millions of people are out there, most of them dont even know you, even you dont even care of how they feel or how they're doing. You cant control them but you can control YOURSELF.
Kecuali lo plokis yg suka bawa2 UU ITE.
Kecuali lo plokis yg suka bawa2 UU ITE.
Di reply dan quote twit ini banyak bgt yg cerita soal struggle masing2 dlm ngadepin fobia dan trauma yg dialami, and how they cope with that situation.
Allow me to say:
Your feelings are legitimate
Mau itu fobia, mau itu trauma atas kekerasan, dsb..
Allow me to say:
Your feelings are legitimate
Mau itu fobia, mau itu trauma atas kekerasan, dsb..
