I made some extremely wild decisions back when I was attracted to men. I dated a dude who was "self taught" at kung fu, which basically means he's just an asshole who thinks he's in an action movie.

He was extremely abusive in some really fucked up ways too.

I don't feel like going into it right now, but he honestly could have killed me.

BUT HE DIDN'T and now he's out of my life.

I didn't choose for my sexuality to change. I didn't choose to stop being attracted to men. But goddamn, it was a great thing to happen.