In a nutshell, the Female Relationship Agenda (FRA) is: Find & lock down a PROVIDER.

What does a "provider" provide?

More than anything, safety, security & a stable future for her (and her children).

A provider is a man whom a woman can envision a comfortable future with.

This has a number of significant ramifications, not the least of which:

A woman doesn& #39;t necessarily marry, or get into a long-term relationship with, the most exciting guy, the most thrilling guy, the sexiest guy.

Long-term, women tend to be looking for SECURITY and STABILITY.

A woman may be having the time of her life with you, but if she doesn& #39;t see you as an adequate long-term provider, odds are she isn& #39;t going to stay with you.

She can be having the time of her life with you, and you& #39;ll still get the "Where is this going?" question at some point.

And if it isn& #39;t "going" somewhere — if it& #39;s not leading to some kind of a secure, stable future together — then, in her eyes, what& #39;s the point? We& #39;re just screwing around.

The FRA is also essential for understanding why women — contrary to the theory of "hypergamy — so often remain in seemingly ordinary, average relationships with unexceptional men.

The dullness, the averageness of the relationship, is in a sense what makes it valuable. It& #39;s SAFE.