I’m sick and tired of people calling @AllianceLGB transphobic. I’m in touch and friends with trans people who support LGB Alliance & women’s rights & aren’t spending all their energy screaming “transphobic bigot” every time something doesn’t *feel* comfortable to them. 1/

Some of the most vocal opponents of @AllianceLGB illustrate with every single comments why this organization is so necessary and why, as a bisexual woman, I want to be part of a movement specifically for people who aren’t fighting a war on biology & the reality of binary sexes 2/

If you’re against @AllianceLGB, I’ve got news for you:
No, you don’t get to decide for everyone.
No, your opinion is not valued here.
No, we don’t get accepted as we are by everyone. That’s life as grownups understand it.
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I have no interest whatsoever in arguing with individuals who can’t respect our right to organize as we damn well please. I don’t respect anyone who disrespects boundaries. And I won’t allow narcissists to decide for everyone. 4/

I will resist and shut out narcissists by every means available to me. Because what I am not is phobic about people who want to live in whatever way makes them happy. I specifically dislike people who impose their reality on everyone else. /5

I don't allow others to define me; I define myself. Calling me transphobic is not only stupid but also inacurate. I AM against narcissism & the complete disregard of other people's needs & feelings. What I am is Narcissiphobic. The word needed coining. Consider it done.
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