Honestly. I have a hard time with this. I may do a wee thread.

See I am loud and boisterous and I know I have values and principles that is not necessarily conventional. So I ensure that I make me, myself and I completely known and laid bare for others to dissect. https://twitter.com/bresrevenge/status/1246923155580616712
I make it known what exactly I am looking for whether it's a casual fling or a serious exclusive thing (which has been rare and I cna count them off my fingers. The flings? Not enough hair on my body). I also make it clear that I want open communication on everything...
... and anything that is going to affect what we have going on. I make it a point to be clear that is being together doesn't mean I am possessive and I dont expect the same. Of course if the mutual agreement is exclusivity, I will respect it. That doesn't mean that it is a...
... gateway to start argumenta because I appreciated another person. I don't expect drama that I have friends of the same or opposite gender. I dont expect to stop you or be stopped from hanging our with friends and family and exes who are my friends. I have a past, you have a...
... past and we all have a past. Deal with it cos I wasn't told to live my life with the foresight that you and I will end up together.

I made this thread cos I get so annoyed with the obsessiveness we have in telling our other half what to do and justify that as looking out or
for the good of the relationships. You have deep seated issues and scars? I will take care of you and help you heal. But that healing of your battle scars is something I want to know about beforehand rather than in the middle of the relationship. You have deep seated issues...
... and scars? I will take care if you and help you heal. But that healing of your battle scars is something I want to know about beforehand rather than in the middle of the relationship. I am not your 24 hour pharmacy to salve your wounds and I won't put myself in a place...
where I will always put you before myself if you can't, where intentionally or unintentionally.

This is also why I am single and why I have been rebuffing all of mother dear's attempts to get me hitched and settled. I don't expect people to change themselves for me...
... or to compromise in a way that they are uncomfortable.

This turned into some deep seated frustrated rant. Meh. Pay no heed. This is more for me to vocalize my thoughts that for you to get bored on this holy weekend.
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