Do you like the version of yourself that they’re bringing out of you? Do you like how you’re feeling about yourself? If you’ve become a version of yourself that you’re ashamed by, genuinely HATE and cannot recognize......darling, you’ve lost yourself. That is NOT you.

You’re not this needy character who has to beg for someone’s attention and validation. That’s not you. Entering the relationship, you had expectations that weren’t met. The deprivation of fundamental things in your relationship has created an unpleasant version of you. Get out.