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Ladies wanna argue and then cuddle and be like "but do you see where I'm coming from?" Nah ma’am, please get off me abeg. hambodlalela lee!!
When your girl is mad at you, bringing up facts while she's talking is not going to help your case. It takes a lot of men a long time to realize this and it makes arguments last longer than they should.
Her: I can't believe you did this on a beautiful sunny day
Me: But it was raining that day njena...
Then All hail break loose..
Me: But it was raining that day njena...
Then All hail break loose..
Gents fight the urge to interrupt her with facts and let her get out her narrative in peace. She spent a lot of time coming up with this narrative. Niggaz swear their relationship is a court of law and they can just yell "Objection" when their girl makes a factual misstatement
I'm learning to just keep quiet. It's hard as shit for me but I'm learning. You got to call on the patience yamadlozi. Women aren't gonna let something as little as facts fuck up their argument.
Me: I understand where u are coming from. I'm sorry it won't happen again.
You have to be prepared to use this a lot in your relationship.
Her : I told u this on Monday
You: It was actually Wednesday
Her : All you like to do is argue.
You have to be prepared to use this a lot in your relationship.
Her : I told u this on Monday
You: It was actually Wednesday
Her : All you like to do is argue.
Niggaz be bringing facts to the argument like "exhibit A. Your honor". Like those mean anything your girl. When you love that woman and are in a relationship with her, you gonna learn to swallow your pride, Swallowing it like vitamin C.
Women are masters of switching goals posts mid argument. Y'all arguing about something next thing she hit you with the "why are you raising your voice at me" meanwhile your voice as calm as sweet breeze
She just shifted the argument from whatever it was y'all were arguing about to "I don't like your tone". It's gonna take you at least 100 arguments in to figure out that the best way to win is to lose. Let me explain
Don't enter the argument ring with your girl. Soon as you see her provoking you into an argument refuse to engage. This strategy involves the utmost discipline. Because these women use trigger words to trick you into an argument next thing you down 12-0 easy
Your girl will hit you with the most illogical statement of all time you’ll be so heated you don't realize she's tricked you into an argument. Understand that logic is your enemy whenever you feel your girl itching for an argument. She’s trying to lure you in.
The funniest thing is, your girl is probably 10 steps ahead of you in any argument. You in level one she waiting for you at level 14. Refuse to engage and after she's cooled down hit her with an apology noting all her points and saying sorry at the end of each point.
She came ready to argue and you took away that satisfaction. Your apology won't do, this is where your discipline comes in beloved. When you’re done apologizing, she'll hit you with more absurd accusations. This is when you have to remain strong because she's trying to lure u in
An apology followed by an argument nullifies the previous apology. Your girl know this so she’ll be waiting to catch you at the finish line
