I keep seeing people talk about how long you should talk to a person before a rxship + personally I think the confusion is that... yes you do know after the first link or month of talking what you want from that particular person but that doesn't mean you need to get into a

rxship. and if you don't want to wait or feel a person is ready for what you want, by all means leave them alone but why do folks feel the need to want to be some kind of punisher by saying "I'm out' like... okay. Do what's best for you. No need to show you feeling a little

rejected or unworthy because they didn't do what you wanted or you not feeling it.