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Deciding that you want more for yourself comes with knowing that you will "lose" people, things and old spaces you used to be in. You won’t frequent the same spaces, and you won’t relate to the majority anymore.
What is the least talked about subject in the level up journey?
How hard it really is, how much you have to sacrifice, how much you need to focus on yourself, and what that truly looks like.
It’s almost taboo.
The propaganda is luxury items...
How hard it really is, how much you have to sacrifice, how much you need to focus on yourself, and what that truly looks like.
It’s almost taboo.
The propaganda is luxury items...
You see a woman with luxury bags, in luxury places, wearing luxury clothing and suddenly you have a pit of comparison in your stomach as you start to wonder if you’re "leveling up correctly"
However there’s no need to compare, because the best kept secret of leveling up? Is being the best YOU you can be.
You cannot be the best you if you’re not prioritizing yourself.
You cannot be the best you if you’re not prioritizing yourself.
Now for the meat 
How to prioritize yourself:
•Think of the life you want
•Analyze the life you’ve lived
•Compare and contrast your current habits/lifestyle with your desired outcome
•Put yourself 1st until you get there
How to prioritize yourself:
•Think of the life you want
•Analyze the life you’ve lived
•Compare and contrast your current habits/lifestyle with your desired outcome
•Put yourself 1st until you get there
Now we’ll break down each part and what may come with it.
Thinking of the life you want can impose a lot excitement and doubt all at once.
You can vividly see yourself in a life with all you desire, but your current environment, closet, or finances don’t match.
Thinking of the life you want can impose a lot excitement and doubt all at once.
You can vividly see yourself in a life with all you desire, but your current environment, closet, or finances don’t match.
Sadly, most women don’t understand that this is the time set intentions, and slowly change their habits to match those intentions.
Example: you want expensive clothing? Treat even your cheapest garment as luxury.
Remove the need for it and replace it with a want of quality.
Example: you want expensive clothing? Treat even your cheapest garment as luxury.
Remove the need for it and replace it with a want of quality.
Much easier said than done, but trust, doing this now places you in an aura of taste and also sharpens your discernment.
Which you’ll need from now and forever into your evolved life.
Which you’ll need from now and forever into your evolved life.
Analyzing the life you were living is where it gets hard.
This is where guilt, shame, and regret kick you a*, if you let it.
It’s fully understandable to feel this way, but our dear Femmes, please excuse yourself for not doing what you did not know. Excuse grace
This is where guilt, shame, and regret kick you a*, if you let it.
It’s fully understandable to feel this way, but our dear Femmes, please excuse yourself for not doing what you did not know. Excuse grace
Why grace?
Because you need the softness that you give the world to heal yourself.
You need to let go of the trauma as apart of your evolution. You need to release the past or you will never feel up to par for your new life.
Because you need the softness that you give the world to heal yourself.
You need to let go of the trauma as apart of your evolution. You need to release the past or you will never feel up to par for your new life.
Do this as you compare and contrast your habits as well.
Instead of beating yourself up, uplift yourself for taking notice to your past mistakes and now taking the action to correct yourself and align with where you want to go.
Instead of beating yourself up, uplift yourself for taking notice to your past mistakes and now taking the action to correct yourself and align with where you want to go.
You can’t beat yourself up because you’re working on shifting your mind to rooting for yourself.
The world will critique you enough as is, no matter what you do.
Extend kindness to yourself. Practice mindfulness when making choices, especially ones that involve your wellbeing
The world will critique you enough as is, no matter what you do.
Extend kindness to yourself. Practice mindfulness when making choices, especially ones that involve your wellbeing
Choose better habits.
Ones that nourish your mind as opposed to solely entertaining it.
Read, stretch, meditate, learn a new skill, sharpen it, take care of your skin, drink water, eat well, travel, try being celibate, focus. on. you.
Ones that nourish your mind as opposed to solely entertaining it.
Read, stretch, meditate, learn a new skill, sharpen it, take care of your skin, drink water, eat well, travel, try being celibate, focus. on. you.
Do not sacrifice yourself for others too often & do not give to those that are unappreciative.
Do not mule for love, it should flow.
Take care of you
Do not mule for love, it should flow.
Take care of you
