i dont know, i feel like the whole debate of how long of a time period is right or not to enter into a relationship or a certain part of it with a person is absolutely pointless tbh. everyone had different views and tbh have you ever seen the opposite to your argument NOT happen?

like there’s *generally two arguments i see here on twitter. one is that you dont need more than 2-5 months of dating someone to know whether you want a relationship with them and the second is that you *generally need longer.

but tbh yall, it’s going to work differently for diff people because we all don’t and will never view love and dating all the same. i’ve seen several scenarios where people entered relationships v quickly and had healthier and longer partnerships as opposed to people who waited

just like i’ve seen certain couples who waited longer to enter a relationship flourish and have longevity as opposed to certain couples who went quickly. i dont think either take is wrong. i just think we should quit telling other people it is.