I’m so tired of how other bi women are treating lesbians it’s fucking embarrassing. bi women and lesbians are sisters, not twins!!! our experiences are similar but not identical!!! if you like men you’re bi and that’s not a bad thing!!! just be bi and leave the lesbians alone!!!

sexuality is hard. I get it. I spent most of freshman year 90% sure I was a lesbian. even though I still am primarily attracted to women, I’ve enjoyed sex with men and that by definition doesn’t make me a lesbian. and the minute I realized that I knew some convos were not for me

some convos are for me to listen to but not comment on. some convos are for me but only in a “I have a v similar, but not identical, experience” way. and a lot of convos are better to have w other bi women anyway!!!

bi ladies we really need to step it up when it comes to respecting our lesbian sisters. I’m tired of making different versions of this thread every few months. just listen to lesbians, leave the lesbian only spaces alone, and donT CALL YOURSELF A LESBIAN IF YOU LIKE MEN!!!!!