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It& #39;s wonderful having a boyfriend now, one reason being that I no longer have to deal with guys calling me "special needs" or "retarded" on Grindr 
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Folks, this is old news
Your shock at these messages isn& #39;t comforting - it& #39;s indicative of your privilege and suggestive of you not engaging with deaf and disabled communities enough. These are things we see and hear everyday. I don& #39;t need your pity or sympathy, I just need you to do better.
Mental illness doesn& #39;t make a person a bigot. Please be careful with those suggestions.
