ALRIGHT, LISTEN Y'ALL THIS IS ACTUALLY A LONG STORYTELLING BUT NOT A BEDTIME ONE OKAY?
"SSG ELECTIONS"
(a thread) https://twitter.com/theudonguy/status/1249328064296677377
"SSG ELECTIONS"
(a thread) https://twitter.com/theudonguy/status/1249328064296677377
note: feel free to react if u feel violent or sumth haha
okay here's my tea, moots...
okay here's my tea, moots...
Last January, I was one of the running officers for our school's SSG from a particular party list. I was running for Secretary that time and I have two other running officers same as my position. It was my first and last time to run for a position since I'm an 11th grader.
I'm sharing this to atleast vent out some of my unwanted anger towards what had happened to me before and to share some of the lessons I've learned.
And then, every parties including ours had a long day of campaign at school and social media. We've had dp blasts and such campaigning stuff + some party issues.
After the campaign days, there's the voting day. Our class vice president (which is bossier than our class president) announced on our class gc to "DON'T FORGET TO VOTE ME FOR SECRETARY". He sent that msg and ofc it's grateful to hear.
On the actual voting, there were two students who facilitated us to distribute voting sheets and instruct us on how are we going to vote. After that, we've finished voting and they're (the two facilitators) ready to leave and count some votes.
After that day was the announcement of winners. Sadly, I did not win but it did not cause me grief or some sort of deep sadness since I haven't regretted anything bcs I still gained A LOT of friends and acquaintances.
Several days have passed until one of my research groupmates sitting beside me in the classroom sent a msg and she was about to spill sumthn on me.
Here's her first words (non verbatim): "Our class vice president didn't vote you for your running position, knowing he had this audacity to announce that we should vote for you. He even backstabbed you for not entering class and facilitating your group...
...and he's kinda FAKE. He didn't even consider your busy campaigns before he call you out being irresponsible on your class requirements. You better get away from him even if you've treated him as one of your 'tropas' blah blah..."
I've even questioned that person who had told me if she's really informing me the truth. There were times I'm not believing what I've read until this very day came...
One of the facilitators (a girl too) on our class during the voting told me the most credible truth behind the true colors of my friend slash class vice president. She told me the exact thoughts that my research groupmates had told me and I WAS BACKSTABBED not just by him.
I have concluded already that moment that my doubts and heard rumors are some sort of truths. I can't even talk to him since he's close-minded and self-centered â thinking he's the most well-noticed and star of the class (but in fact, it was really me...
...bcs. he doesn't have the authentic demeanor unlike me, meaning to say he's indeed faking himself and his mightiness which is gross). But you know what? Even if I wasn't able to confront him, my witty ass just attacked him indirectly during our class recitation.
I delivered a well-said answer slash toasty statement (meant for him) on our PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT class. I've said these words (non verbatim):
"Ang totoong leader, hindi hypocrite and hindi pinepeke ang galing. At sa totoo lang sir, marami kasi sa atin ngayon...
"Ang totoong leader, hindi hypocrite and hindi pinepeke ang galing. At sa totoo lang sir, marami kasi sa atin ngayon...
...na mabilis manghusga PERO MABAGAL MAG-ISIP blah blah..."
I feel kinda relieved of delivering that answer bcs I've released the sweet vengeance I deserve to throw off onto his face, even if it was indirectly said.
I feel kinda relieved of delivering that answer bcs I've released the sweet vengeance I deserve to throw off onto his face, even if it was indirectly said.
Starting from that day, I'm just acting v normal towards him and sometimes making him realize his incompetence and dirty fake ass.
Ngl but it had caused me more trust issues but atleast it made me more vigilant with whom I'm dealing in front of. It made me realized how insecure the world might be towards you and will oftentimes pull you down. Why? Bcs it means you're over them.
So when you feel small and you've experience these, change your mindset of being an underdog bcs you aren't. You are capable and the world just distracts you from that mere fact. Even on your career, there will always be someone who'll be jealous on you and will worsen your day.
MORAL LESSON(S): be careful with whom you trust, whenever it is your best friend or an acquaintance. backstabbers are easy to deal with if you already know the truth and if you know your level.
Just consider this visual rep...
Assume that you're stepping on a v high cylinder and a person or group of ppl is on the lower one. Imagine them being too loud and uttering some shaming words and such. You're cylinder is too high unlike them for you to hear them, ryt?
Assume that you're stepping on a v high cylinder and a person or group of ppl is on the lower one. Imagine them being too loud and uttering some shaming words and such. You're cylinder is too high unlike them for you to hear them, ryt?
So basically, when you're trying to hear them out is equal to lowering yourself, your value, and you don't even deserve them. I have several things to tell more to y'all but I guess these are enough.
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