I just think there was no relationship to begin with if something as simple as a lockdown can break y’ll apart!!

Like why are they breaking up? Is it because they can’t see one another or because of another reason?? Ke those give me attention & affirmation things or?? Coz I really don’t see how 35 days can collapse a solid foundation, why are they breaking up?? Did something change or?

Phela if you’re locked down together there will be challenges but it’s nothing you would not have dealt with before, you know you gotta lift the seat, she knows you share responsibilities etc, kante le jola yang during weekenders/baecations etc?? Ke sex waya waya? No adulting?

A full month with your partner should be a breeze actually, you can still enjoy one another in silence because of presence, it boils back to built foundations actually, not everyday will be sunny, you have other shit going on, it’s allowed, it’s how you do you that matters!!

I ain’t no saint, I have nothing figured out, a kena formula but I do know a lockdown can’t be a reason why y’ll break up, someone is lying, speak your truth shem, ska batla scapegoat

after years of being together you start discussing a lot of stuff, marriage, the future etc, hence I say if the foundations are strong then being locked down together is a breeze, there are difficult challenges facing us but certain reassurances & affirmations lighten the weight

You have made it known to the universe that you’re fighting every battle as a duo, it needs no marriage certificate even, you are merely living your truth as a couple and being there for one another, you look out and for one another mentally, physically and emotionally!!