Black men get told by everyone that White supremacy is just an excuse we use and we simply aren't trying hard enough, that we are at the bottom of all races, are the most conquered, but at the same time be told we are the benefactors of privilege. How sway?

Identifying the most marginalized Black men as being benefactors of male privilege is like saying the most marginalized Black people are benefactors of settler privilege. Whatever privileges exist are wiped out by the overwhelming targeted disadvantages sponsored by the state.