Feminists in their 30s can't marry due to their nakhray coz they want a perfect man with zero compromises, and then would mislead young girls too who have good prospects of a happy marriage, probably out of sheer jealousy.
There are so many problems here.
1. Gender essentialism: one man did wrong to them, so all men are the same and there is no probability of finding a good partner. Which is total bullcrap if you ask me. Otherwise the opposite is true too.
2. No compromises: if you think you can marry without compromises, then you better stay single. Marriage brings 'mutual' compromises, emphasis on the word mutual. You can't be papa ki princess all your life. Secondly, the happiness of a happy marriage can overshadow compromises.
3. What about unhappy marriages then? Well that can be taken care of in the decision making process. Just because you were bad in your decision making while choosing a partner doesn't mean every one else would be. This pessimist approach serves nobody.
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