Ok so I’m finally doing this HAHAHA. I’m sorry, I know it’s overdue but I figured this could be useful for quarantine LOL

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Disclaimer: I’m no sex expert. Just ur regular gurl who wants to help https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="💕" title="Two hearts" aria-label="Emoji: Two hearts"> https://twitter.com/maantok/status/1234502190116429824">https://twitter.com/maantok/s...
Reasons for doing this:

1. I’ve talked about this with friends (of different genders) & they’ve found the discussions to be helpful

2. Seeing lots of tweets abt girls who can’t orgasm and I wanna help bec Y’ALL DESERVE TO CUM!!! https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😤" title="Face with look of triumph" aria-label="Emoji: Face with look of triumph">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😤" title="Face with look of triumph" aria-label="Emoji: Face with look of triumph">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😤" title="Face with look of triumph" aria-label="Emoji: Face with look of triumph">
1. Ok! First up: “How do I orgasm?”

Tip #1: MASTURBATE
I can’t stress this enough. I first learned how to fully cum thanks to my fingers.

- It’s gonna take a while for u to learn because biology
- You’ll probs feel frustrated along the way but that’s ok!
- Just keep doing it ;)
Ok so at first, u’ll probs feel a bit weird masturbating bec society has conditioned women to be ashamed of our sexuality. DON’T. THERE’S NO SHAME IN WANTING SEX!

So keep at it until you feel fully comfortable with the act.

You can fantasize / watch porn / read erotica to help!
The key to masturbation is just to explore. Unlike men who just have their dick to stroke, we gotta find our pleasure points (e.g. clitoris and G-spot). Once you do, ohhh it’s so worth it.

I know these two can be rather elusive but trust your gut. Don’t overthink too much.
Found a spot that brings u extra pleasure? Just remember it :)

Some helpful stuff:
- using lube (the wetter, the better)
- sex toys (dildo, vibrator, etc)

remember: the more you masturbate, the more you get to know your body. It’s a uhh pleasurable adventure ;)
How about with a partner?

Basically: You have to be horny enough.

Some guys try to put it in when ure still not wet enough. Don’t be afraid to tell them you still need more foreplay. “can you do <this> more first?”

This can be making out, fingering, eating pussy, etc.
So make sure you’re comfortable enough with your partner.

Communication is key to great sex.

Lots are shy to say what they want but personally, I do it quite often. I ask the guy for what he wants too and it leads to better sex for us both.
This is for everyone: please be open to someone’s input re sex. Everyone experiences pleasure differently. It doesn’t mean you’re not good at it, just that it could be even better for u both.

Plus, it would help u improve ur skills by gaining more knowledge!

No to fragile egos
Ok so in sex, masturbation pays off because you can uhh adjust yourself to hit those sweet spots.

Or direct the guy to them!

Oh no, I miss sex lol skl

Ok! Next up:
2. “What if I came already but I just don’t know it?”

Ok so in my experience, there’s different levels of orgasm: it goes from omg to OHMYFUCKINGGOD!!!!

It was only when I reached the maximum level (lol) that I realized I came before already, just not that intensely
Basically, if you’re in doubt whether you came already, that’s okay. It just means that there’s much more pleasure to come.

Keep exploring and you’ll get to that point where you just go— oh yeah, THAT’s an orgasm
3. Multiple orgasms

Oh, I LOVE this. We women are blessed with the ability to cum again and again and again

So learn to cum first ofc and then when u learn not to hold back on one, you’ll learn not to hold back on (many) others
3. Squirting

Biologically, some girls can’t do this but that’s ok!!! We all experience pleasure in diff ways

However, I do think lots of girls are capable of it but just havent learned it yet

Idk exactly how I did? But it involves just really getting horny and then letting go
I did some research & correct me if I’m wrong but there’s no definitive definition on what it is?

Some people think it’s pee but I don’t think so. I squirt A LOT and can still pee normally after sex.

Also, a guy I fucked said he tried drinking a little LOL & it’s tasteless
Speaking of after sex, please pee after. It helps cleanse ur pussy by flushing out bacteria. This also applies to masturbation.

Wash ur pussy too, ok ladies?
Also,

- PLEASE USE PROTECTION. Unless you want a baby. I have a strict “no condom no sex” rule. Some asshole guys will try to convince u to do it raw. Be firm. If they insist, DROP THEM.

- Consider taking birth control pills. Helps take off the worry.
Also, get tested for HIV!

Lots of clinics do it for free. It’s quick and it’s really not an intimidating experience. My first time getting tested, I did so with friends :)
Lastly,

CONSENT CONSENT CONSENT
Having sex is great as long as there’s CONSENT! https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="♥️" title="Heart suit" aria-label="Emoji: Heart suit">
P.S. huhu pls tell me if this thread has some useful insights because if it’s a total fail, imma delete
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