it's okay to be bisexual with a heavy lean towards women, i need you all to understand this. it doesn't make you any less "valid", it just means you have a preference and that's fine. just don't go around calling yourself a lesbian when you clearly are not one

"but i only like men like... 5% of the time?" and?? lesbians only like men 0% of the time, that's what makes us lesbians. it's okay to be bisexual. stop embracing your internalized biphobia, it is not good for you.

when i say this i'm not talking about the sapphics who think they like men but are just forcing themselves to be w them. if you wish you were a lesbian because you simply cannot be attracted to men then you probably are a lesbian. i'm talking abt people who are actually into men