I want to talk to Christian sisters .

Especially the ones who dated really “spiritual “ guys and felt let down by them .

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You probably have seen this . Christian lady waited for Mr tongue speaking good Christian bible quoting right . They start dating and after some months or years .

Heart break !

The lady finds out that for some reasons the guy doesn’t want to continue . He quotes God or the spirit but the conclusion is that he feels “they are not compatible “

The lady is heartbroken and disappointed. She doesn’t want to go to church anymore because they used to attend the same church . She just wants to be alone for some time or attend a different assembly .

You know she felt a Christian guy would be her bus stop ! A guy who asked her out because he would marry and not play around with her heart .

Before you know it this sister begins to think that being of the same faith or shared values is not necessary for marriage or dating so she throws all caution to the wind !

After all brother spiricoco broke her heart !

Dear sister , never make a permanent decision when you are in pain . You will regret it . Wait and heal then see clearly to decide . Don’t jump from frying pan into fire .

Not all relationships between Christians where meant to happen and not all will lead to marriage . While break ups can be painful , it is important to know that God knows the End before the beginning . We must rest in this knowledge.

Don’t let a break up and the pain form how you perceive love or Christian people . Don’t let pain color your vision of men or women . Heal first then see clearly to choose again . To love again .

At times when a break up happens you would think that your world has ended when in fact it only just began . Life is a marathon not a sprint . Make sure you understand this .

Please also note that the fact a guy speaks in tongues loudly , shares scriptures daily on social media or is a leader in church doesn’t make him a man of integrity . Religious men can move from you because they were never even committed to you !

So heal and love again . Learn from your mistakes and live again . Don’t lower the standards . Be more sensitive this time before you say “yes “