Yeah I still don’t know here. More how I should respond; I know what I think. Thread: https://twitter.com/tag_name38935/status/1241977921809629185

Cause it seems like it’s actual ace people still doing the shipping in some cases. So I don’t know what to make of this. They could be lying about that, I guess, but I’m not sure how likely that is. And they might not be aro, but I think maybe they are? Just read the thread plz

I don’t know, can someone who’s aspec please advise here? I’d appreciate it. No seriously please I’m having a bit of a panic attack here.

Like, i want to tag some people who know better than me on this but I’m still overflowing with all the anxiety and whatnot. I just hope these tweets get noticed.

I guess the question I’m asking here is: is allowing people to continue to ship her romantically aphobic? I’d think yes, but from what I’ve seen a lot of aspec people disagree. Is it just arophobia specifically? I don’t know anything. So what do I do here? If you wanna plz help.

Like, if it weren’t for the amount of aspec people I’ve seen still doing the shipping this would be super easy. But this just makes it super complicated for me. I don’t know. I just don’t want to support aphobia, but being allo and with all this I’m not entirely sure if it IS.

Like, it really SEEMS to be to me, but a lot of actual aspec people seem to disagree. I’m not shipping her romantically with ANYONE anymore, just to be clear, but it’s more me wordeeing how to respond to those who do. Many of whom ARE aspec, hence why this is even a discussion

I’m just tired of this and would like to know how I should respond here. Cause I’m allosexual; I don’t get to decide what’s aphobic and what isn’t. Normally I can tell, but here specifically I don’t know and would like some help. There’s two whole threads up there for context

The point is: respect aroaces or go fuck yourself.

If actual aspec people can overlook/support it, I can turn a blind eye AT MOST maybe. Please tell me if this is me excusing aphobia, I’m not good at this. Im allo, I’m gonna fuck up. Please correct me if I do

I will be keeping my distance from those people regardless. Peridot is CANONICALLY aroace and I’m going to keep with that

Okay I’m done now. What I said stands but I’m tired. Again feel free to correct me here but I’m done otherwise