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Lol. Wanna hear a crazy story?
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I used to date this guy, right?
Met him my freshman year of college—he lived back in my hometown & shot his shot via Snapchat after some flirting.
We started talking, exchanged numbers, all dat...
Met him my freshman year of college—he lived back in my hometown & shot his shot via Snapchat after some flirting.
We started talking, exchanged numbers, all dat...
He was almost perfect.
I loved me some him.
We were inseparable on the weekends(1 of us would come to where the other was..2 hours away) and after my classes and stuff during the week, we’d be on FaceTime.
Shit was supa smooth, romantic, and cloud-9-ish and shit.
I loved me some him.
We were inseparable on the weekends(1 of us would come to where the other was..2 hours away) and after my classes and stuff during the week, we’d be on FaceTime.
Shit was supa smooth, romantic, and cloud-9-ish and shit.
lol I told that man basically everything about me, & he knew about how I’d be hurt and shit. We were best friends, yadda yadda.
I just wanna get the point across that shit was super good and I was in love wit him
I just wanna get the point across that shit was super good and I was in love wit him
Let’s set the scene...
I was just getting out of class when I received a series of texts from him.
I had my phone on DND during classes I actually gave a damn about LMAO.
It was some screenshots of some messages.
For some reason, even tho I know I wasn’t guilty of anything, my heart raced.
I had my phone on DND during classes I actually gave a damn about LMAO.
It was some screenshots of some messages.
For some reason, even tho I know I wasn’t guilty of anything, my heart raced.
I opened the screenshots.
Apparently, it’s some chick texting him.
She’s saying shit like
“Ohh heard you fucking wit another bitch... I know you miss this pussy”
He’s responding like
“That’s my lady and ur gonna respect her. Dismiss yoself”
Curving her, right?
Apparently, it’s some chick texting him.
She’s saying shit like
“Ohh heard you fucking wit another bitch... I know you miss this pussy”
He’s responding like
“That’s my lady and ur gonna respect her. Dismiss yoself”
Curving her, right?
He and I laughed at the situation together on the phone that evening 
I remember being soooo flattered that he was curving bitches for lil ol me
I remember being soooo flattered that he was curving bitches for lil ol me
Now. This was in...2016, I believe.
(So. Before I blew up... when I had my normal lil 2,000 followers)
& being the twitter junkie I ALWAYS have been, I posted a tweet wit the screenshots.
tryna do a lil flex for the simple fact I had a man riding for me
(So. Before I blew up... when I had my normal lil 2,000 followers)
& being the twitter junkie I ALWAYS have been, I posted a tweet wit the screenshots.
tryna do a lil flex for the simple fact I had a man riding for me
The tweet got more attention than expected... it didn’t go ‘viral’ but it was the viral that’s viral to someone with 2,000 followers and got 3 likes on her pics
.
With that attention brought a lot of “goals” & “this >>>” quotes and shit.
I was so proud to be cuffed.
. With that attention brought a lot of “goals” & “this >>>” quotes and shit.
I was so proud to be cuffed.
And then it happened.
Lol.
Sigh.
Lol.
Sigh.
Someone quoted my tweet saying it was fake.
They said in the screenshot the last app preview (at the top left of yo iPhone screen) said a texting app.
I looked.
They were right.
They said in the screenshot the last app preview (at the top left of yo iPhone screen) said a texting app.
I looked.
They were right.
Before I even responded to the person calling me out,
I tried to consult him.
Because if it’s true, & he REALLY downloaded a text app... texted himself... fabricated a conversation..... and then sent it to me for props.....
......we were gonna have a serious fucking issue.
I tried to consult him.
Because if it’s true, & he REALLY downloaded a text app... texted himself... fabricated a conversation..... and then sent it to me for props.....
......we were gonna have a serious fucking issue.
He says no.
It was for... idk.... i wish I could remember the excuse he gave. Lol.
either way... he was my man. And he had no reason to lie to me.
So I defended him on Twitter. Called the mfs engaging w the tweet dicksuckers... I was blocking, arguing, showing out. Smh
It was for... idk.... i wish I could remember the excuse he gave. Lol.
either way... he was my man. And he had no reason to lie to me.
So I defended him on Twitter. Called the mfs engaging w the tweet dicksuckers... I was blocking, arguing, showing out. Smh
But I still had my suspicions.
And I try to always listen to my gut.
And I try to always listen to my gut.
So I asked him plenty more times thru the day.
Bc I was taking heat on Twitter all day about my tweet. Pride too big to delete it.
It was embarrassing.
I guess he got frustrated by me asking so many times, that it turned into an argument...
We were at eachother’s head.
Bc I was taking heat on Twitter all day about my tweet. Pride too big to delete it.
It was embarrassing.
I guess he got frustrated by me asking so many times, that it turned into an argument...
We were at eachother’s head.
The arguing probably only lasted for an hour. But it felt like the entire day.
I had caught my roommate up to speed.
She saw the tweets, she saw the screenshots he sent me.
& she felt the same way I did. This was suspect.
She hyped me up to call him & demand an answer.
I had caught my roommate up to speed.
She saw the tweets, she saw the screenshots he sent me.
& she felt the same way I did. This was suspect.
She hyped me up to call him & demand an answer.
My roomie and I were getting ready for bed. And I was sitting on my bed when I called him.
I put the phone on speaker so she could hear.
I put the phone on speaker so she could hear.
I spoke calmly and supportively—so I could make it seem “safe” to tell me the truth.
Which was SO evident, btw.
It was clear he absolutely did text himself and fake the whole thing.
But I needed him to own up to it.
He had been denying it LITERALLY the entire day.
Which was SO evident, btw.
It was clear he absolutely did text himself and fake the whole thing.
But I needed him to own up to it.
He had been denying it LITERALLY the entire day.
I remember PLEADING, saying “u can tell me the truth... did u fake it???”
there was a long pause.
me, my roommate, & the phone were completely silent.
Then his voice, in a hushed tone, slithered through my phone’s speaker into the quietness of our dorm:
there was a long pause.
me, my roommate, & the phone were completely silent.
Then his voice, in a hushed tone, slithered through my phone’s speaker into the quietness of our dorm:
“...................yes”
*click*
My roommate and I both dropped our jaws. And then I burst into tears.
The man I was so in love with, so committed to... pulled a foul & UNNECESSARY move AND lied about it NUMEROUSLY.
*click*
My roommate and I both dropped our jaws. And then I burst into tears.
The man I was so in love with, so committed to... pulled a foul & UNNECESSARY move AND lied about it NUMEROUSLY.
But you know what... none of what I just typed was the ‘crazy’ part.....
The crazy part is that I forgave him, stayed in a relationship with him, and had a baby by him.
Embarrassing!
Embarrassing!
