What Christians say when you leave Christianity:

-“You were never a real believer” (no true Scotsman)
-“You're weren't doing it right"
-"You focused on yourself rather than god/jesus/holy spirit"
-"The bible doesn't stop being true just because you stop believing"
1/

-"Jesus loves you anyway"
-"You'll come back around"
-“Your church hurt doesn't mean god isn't real"
-"Not MY church"
-"Being a Christian isn't about church"
-"I'll pray for you"
-"Have you read/listened to/watched/..."
-"You just want to sin"
2/

-"I used to feel that way, too"
-"I went through that phase, too"
-"It's common to struggle with faith when times are tough"
-"Just believe, you'll understand it someday"
-"Your personal hurt doesn't mean religion isn't true"
-"Jesus will welcome you back with open arms"
3/

-"You weren't empowered by the holy spirit" (Charismatics)
-"Your theology was wrong" (Calvinists)
-"Just follow Jesus" (Progressives)
4/

....and my favorite...drumroll...

-"Let's get coffee"

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