Be aware of how people refer to themselves. It tells you everything about their self-respect.

I will quickly walk away from a man that refers to himself as a nigga.
I desire a man who refers to himself as a man.

Same for women... saying you are this or that bitch, says a lot about how you respect yourself. You are a woman, not a bitch. How do you want to be portrayed? You open that door.

If you choose to open that door, don’t be surprised of what comes in.