i’m going to say a couple of things

first off, this life you’re seeing yeah, we’re all figuring it out

we all go through ups and downs, everyone has one of those days

the reasons are obviously not always the same but anxiety is anxiety, sadness is sadness, fear is fear

so maybe you check your phone and you see people smiling and having fun and you get mad, you start questioning why you can’t be as happy as this person, as wealthy as this person, as cool and as comfortable as this person

its okay to feel that way but its also okay to accept your situation presently and keep working on becoming better at whatever it is you’re aspiring to be

those people you see and want to be like rarely post bad news about themselves, they’ll never post bad news about themselves, the only bad news you hear are the ones they can’t keep behind the curtain, which could be death of someone close to them or related to them

but every other mishap in their lives, they never tweet or talk about, that’s why you think they don’t ho through things you go through, the problem is you keep looking for people who have the same problem as you so it can make you feel okay about your situation

i’ll suggest you stop that, focus on you, build yourself mentality, learn to be strong and resillent because 90% of the people you’re going to share your problems with can’t solve them.
tell them to God

everyone goes through one of those phases but not everyone holds on to those events or scenarios and dwell on them

life is very short, living your life sad and unsure about the future is okay for a while, we all go through that phase but remember that dwelling in that phase is holding you back to a lot of opportunities and experiences that could change your mind state

there is nothing better than having a stress free mind, occupy yourself with things you love, sometimes its hard to even know what you love but gradually if you become commited to finding yourself you’ll find what you love, if you do, focus on it

i just feel like there is someone out there that needs to hear these things, wallahi we’re all just trying to find our true purpose, sometimes life does not make any sense but we just keep moving

sometimes we go through days feeling like we can’t make it to the next one because of the weight of the things that are holding us down but look, we went past those days, alive and well

nothing beats waking up with the ability to function fully, even people on hospital beds are happy they are alive, some won’t have their legs anymore but they’ve accepted that and they’ll still live happy with just that

contentment and faith really takes you a long way, a lot of things will break you but wallahi if you have it in mind that you’ll survive through them, you will

learn to be happy in whatever situation you find yourself, learn to be thankful wherever you find yourself because everyday above the ground is a good day

peace and love

before i go i’ll add a couple more things

i know a lot of people get worried about not having anyone to talk to about things they’re going through but most of the times talking to them won’t help you, it might feel good to get things off your chest but its not going to change the fact that the situation is still the same

i’ve had my own fair share some of these things but i never talk to anyone about anything, i keep it to myself, i breakdown but i still cheer myself up, with time i became able to forget about things, no matter how bad

i’ve mourned deaths alone, i’ve went through failures alone, i’ve went through anxiety and depression alone and i swear nobody could tell because i walk out with a smile on my face because i know nobody can change anything for me but God, so i talk to him

and as always, i overcome them, so whatever you’re going through that might make you feel like you should give up, i’m begging you to hand in there and just you know, stay alive and hopeful, have faith

i don’t even know if these things make sense but yeah, peace and love.