Can you enjoy 2k while losing a thread: A very complicated question, no enjoys losing, especially those of us who have competed IRL at a high level. But there are ways of being a good teammate that will help those around get better without tearing them down.
The first mistake of many is the first question you hear in sports growing up. Is he/she coachable? Ask yourself and be honest with yourself, do you listen to your teammates when they suggest that you try something? This basic thing leads to the arguements that break up teams.
The 2nd part of this is being able to talk to guys with respect. If you talk down to your teammates like they are worse than you even if YOU think they are, they will not listen. Delivery is everything!
When the going gets rough do you quit and pile on mistake after mistake, or do you stay solid with the team gameplan that you ALL think best gives you the chance to be successful? Could be the difference in a 20 point loss and finger pointing or 10 point loss with communication.
Remember it's a video game and while we want to win, what we should enjoy is the comraderie we find playing with people from all different backgrounds and remember to ENJOY the wins just as much as hate the losses. Sounds simple but we forget to enjoy winning and sulk on losses.