if you think someone is “such a horrible person” you NEED to TELL THEM what they did wrong! if you cannot stand someone THAT MUCH because of all these “awful things they did” but then not tell them what it is? how are they going to change if they don’t know what they did wrong

i reached out to this person today because i was in total shock of what they were saying to emily, i thought “i don’t know this person so they can’t be talking about me” i’ve tried and tried again to get this person to tell me “what i did” or “who i bullied” but i’m getting

nothing but vague comments in return. i KNOW that i haven’t gone out of my way to “bully someone” but if i’ve accidentally hurt someone or they straight up think my personality is a problem, then i NEED TO KNOW otherwise how am i gonna get any better? this person has

expressed how much they despise me because i’m “such a bully” so i’m trying and trying to find out what i did to make a total stranger hate me. but they won’t tell me. so it’s a bit of a messy situation and obviously i don’t want to continue to act the way i do if it apparently

hurts so many people. but if this person isn’t gonna cough up any proof of “what i did” then tbh i honestly just think they’re full of shit which tbh makes me feel better because if they can’t prove anything then i guess i did nothing wrong! thank you and goodnight!