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I’m getting asked a lot for advice recently so just wanted to do a thread with all my best tips for new SWs/findommes, these aren’t all hard fast rules, just stuff I’ve learnt in my time doing this.. this is going to be a long one and il continue to add!
- findom -
- findom -
- always get payment upfront, don’t do anything - photos, previews, kink chat, Skype before they’ve sent.
- if a sub sends you unsolicited photos/videos, do NOT expose them on your twitter, they wanted free humiliation and they’re getting it, just report, block and move on
- if a sub sends you unsolicited photos/videos, do NOT expose them on your twitter, they wanted free humiliation and they’re getting it, just report, block and move on
- similarly when subs send you messages designed to antagonise you, don’t take the bait, they’re getting off on you cussing them out
- do your research on BDSM, figure out the areas that naturally appeal to you, read some literotica, find out what you relate to..
- do your research on BDSM, figure out the areas that naturally appeal to you, read some literotica, find out what you relate to..
.. you’ll find it much easier to create content, interact with subs if you’re genuinely into the kinks you’re participating in, findom often pairs with other kinks (sph, foot fetish, chastity etc.) read up and figure out what you like!
- educate yourself on SSC and RACK
- educate yourself on SSC and RACK
- when it comes to creating content, think of yourself as a brand, it may take a while to craft that image but start thinking about the aesthetic and vibe you want to promote, are you bratty/elegant/cutesy etc Try to be consistent with that whenever you create.. have fun with it!
- I cannot recommend good lighting enough! I have one ring light and a soft box at either side of it, but I started off with just the ring light and that’s what I’d suggest first!
- aside from that make sure your backgrounds are tidy! Even if you have to shove all your crap..
- aside from that make sure your backgrounds are tidy! Even if you have to shove all your crap..
.. Into a different corner of the room, just do it, a minimal background allows you to be the focus, remember we’re selling a fantasy!
- get yourself verified on an adult site as a matter of priority!
- get yourself verified on an adult site as a matter of priority!
- Figure out what makes you unique/ what your best features are.. have you got an irresistible accent or voice, intense, beautiful eyes, an absolutely fire body.. use it and capitalise on that!
- Don’t feel the need to be a copy of everyone else, when I first started I was using language that really didn’t feel like me, it was inauthentic but it was the way I though it needed to be as I saw everyone else doing it. Once I re-evaluated..
And started actually being myself I really found my stride and subs could absolutely tell, this also fed into building myself as a brand and bringing everything together as something consistent, authentic and professional
- Try not to let yourself get disheartened by the successes of your peers on the TL, this shit really does take time, effort and determination, I didn’t get my first tribute for around 2 weeks and it’s built from there, even where I’m at I can still feel like I’m not doing good..
Enough or not working hard enough but it’s all relative.
- idk if you need to hear this but 99.9% of Twitter sugar daddies are fake, ignore them, report them, never ever give anyone your username and password to anything, and never send GCs to anyone for the promise of money.
- idk if you need to hear this but 99.9% of Twitter sugar daddies are fake, ignore them, report them, never ever give anyone your username and password to anything, and never send GCs to anyone for the promise of money.
