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It& #39;s a damn shame to see people ousting others when people are trying to improve themselves and it can be hard to forgive them for what people have done.
But it doesn& #39;t allow you to also use words that can damage emotions and someone& #39;s mental health because they "deserve it".
But it doesn& #39;t allow you to also use words that can damage emotions and someone& #39;s mental health because they "deserve it".
People mess up all the time. Every day. I always believe in second chances and if they mess up on that chance, I give them a third if they even showed little improvement and the expectation to learn the next time is extremely unrealistic view to put on anybody. We& #39;re not perfect.
But I& #39;m also not saying that people should forgive so easily. It can be hard to believe or even gauge whether a person online is genuinely putting out an apology or just straight up doing it to gain attention or move on just to not deal with the stress of people piling on them.
Adding on hateful comments and death threats doesn& #39;t make the situation any better for them or yourself. When people do that I keep saying in my head "What if people told you that? How would you feel?" Plus people can make the mistake that you can be potentially harmful too.
I try my damn hardest to keep a level head and wanting to project my frustration for what people do to others, but does it benefit me? Does it make me a better person to tell someone they& #39;re awful? I always say this: "If you can& #39;t say anything nice, don& #39;t say anything at all."
Though it is not my say that everyone has to be like this, but kindness and understanding benefits not just others, but yourself as well. I also know that being kind, understandable and forgiving are skills that everyone can learn if they chose to, but it is never easy.
Even though it is easy to be negative towards others it is also easy to sympathize versus to empathize with others. Empathy is simply being in their shoes and understanding how they feel in that particular situation. It is also okay to not know what its like to be in their shoes.
I encourage some of you to try and be empathetic to someone you talk to on the regular. For example, if someone is upset, instead of feeling sorry for them, keep in mind of how they felt and imagining yourself going through their situation, even if it never has happened to you.
We can lessen the amount of hatred and mental strain on others if we took the time to sit down and learn what every person has to say. I& #39;m also not saying that you should also agree with them, but instead understand their process and how they came to that thought process.
For those that took the time to read this thread, I hope there was something in here that stood out or even if there was something I made a mistake on, I& #39;m always learning! I don& #39;t have all the answers and I shouldnt be expected to know it all. Lets all learn from one another! 
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